I always feel like I am responsible for everything in my life....not just for me, but for everything. The bills, the house, the kid, the cleaning, EVERYTHING!!!! I understand to an extent that this is how it used to be "back in the day" and how it will probably be forever, but why? Cant men own up and be somewhat responsible for somethings in the marriage? Why is sooo hard for them to realize that a marriage is about two people and not just for the woman? Why not just stay bachelors then? I truly believe that men would see a difference in all women (women who have a problem with this) and that it would be more peaceful in the household. But no, we have to be labeled as naggers, obessesors, and other things....actually, I could name them, but I dont have time to name them all. lol.
It might sound like I am just bitching, and maybe I am, but maybe Im not, and men should step it up more. Ya know??? All I know is it would be nice to come home and not have to do anything for a change......I know..but a girl can dream, cant I ?? ;) until we meet again..........
Ok so I can't say I deal with this..so not sure what kind of advice to offer but I wanted u to know I am watching and did read it..
ReplyDeleteAmen. I'm the responsible party in 99%. Sometimes I just look at him and say "really...how did you exist before you married me?"
ReplyDeleteI hear ya amber!! I say that to Jonathan all the time....he just rolls his eyes and says "I wouldnt have dear"!! UUGGHHH!! I could kill him for his sarcasm sometimes.....lol.
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